If It Wasn’t For. . . Kay Hopkins
by Rev. Sandy Diamond
Unity in Lincoln Park~Chicago (although then it was Unity Church of Peace) historically has been directed by an all male board of trustees. However, when Kay Hopkins came along she changed all of that.

I remember sitting in the board meeting when the board members were selecting officers and the outgoing board president said: “Okay. Who would like to be the president?” And recently elected Kay who was looking down at her paper and notes…raised her head and said: “I would. I would like to be the President.” I’ll never forget the joy that ran through me (as the senior minister) at that moment in time! I thought: “Oh! Thank You God! Thank You so much! A woman board President!”
Kay and I went on to develop a deep soul level love and commitment to each other and for Unity in Lincoln Park. When our lease was lost (the building was being converted to luxury condos, all the real estate rage of the time) she and I went looking for our new space to hold Sunday service. On a shoestring budget…we went looking. Where did God want us to land? Where was our next affordable spot? I recall with fondness the warm Chicago day that Erv (her significant other) drove us all around the Lincoln Park neighborhood searching. We called ourselves Fric and Frac looking for real estate. We had a whole lot of fun….filled with laughter, prayers and the joy of the Lord.
We found a place…a very nice place….the meeting room at the Days Inn on Diversey in Chicago. Often people think…oh a Days Inn…not much to that. Wrong. The Days Inn we are in is a boutique style hotel in the heart of the Lincoln Park area of Chicago. Very, very nice. With doormen, valet parking, lovely surroundings. We were in heaven. Besides, we no longer had to clean the space or even empty the trash ourselves. We were happy women…happy women working for God, now with doormen and valets.
Kay would bring cakes, cupcakes, pies and everything in between for us to have on Sunday mornings. We relished in her ability to cook and bake and her willingness to do that for us. When Jesus said to “feed the people” Kay took it to heart and really did feed the people. How fortunate we were to have her with us on Sunday mornings and throughout the week. Her loving wisdom and gentle spirit was a blessing to us all. And Kay had a way…a very motherly discernment and wisdom. She dispensed good solid life advice, along with her baked treats.
Things change. Kay’s spirit called her to move on and retire to Wisconsin. We loved her completely and the spiritual wisdom that she dispensed to us all, with her cupcakes, her smiling face and perhaps most of all the light that shone so clearly from her heart and soul.
We miss her always, but we do keep in touch. I spoke to her recently during Mother’s Day week and she and Erv are doing well and are happy in Wisconsin where the trees and nature (not to mention family members) nourish them every day and each starlit evening.
If it hadn’t been for Kay Hopkins? Unity in Lincoln Park~Chicago would not be here…and many of us would have missed out terribly on her light and spirit.
Thank you Kay…from all of us, for those blessed Sundays with you!
While you may be in Wisconsin now you will ever and always be in the heart and DNA of Unity in Lincoln Park and we will always be grateful for you and the light that you shared.
With love always,
Rev. Sandy